Wait until steadily warm mornings bring out native bees before cutting stems; a soil thermometer or the appearance of dandelions makes a helpful cue. Recycle cut pieces as mulch, divide overcrowded clumps for friends, and record what thrived to guide future, place-appropriate plant additions.
Deadhead lightly to extend bloom without removing all seed, weed after rains when roots release easily, and water in the morning to avoid mildew. Observe who arrives at each plant and note patterns, then tweak spacing or companions to favor bustling, balanced interactions over time.
Leave leaves where they will nourish soil and shelter chrysalides, and cut stems only to knee height, storing bundles upright outdoors for emerging residents. Enjoy goldfinches harvesting seeds, track footprints in snow, and feel your patience rewarded when the earliest queens return in spring.